Your Blessings: What are they?

Have you ever wondered where your blessings are? Perhaps you’ve been wanting a situation to be a certain way in your life, but it hasn’t changed or shown up yet. So you keep working at it, wishing and hoping for things to be different. But in the process, do you miss the blessings that are right in front of you?

We all know that energy goes where our focus goes. So it certainly isn’t helpful to focus on what is missing. Otherwise, we will get more of what we don’t want.

But how can we focus our energy to turn towards the blessings we already have? Most of us here know what to do yet may still have experiences that we don’t prefer.

Here is a Roadmap that will help you have better experiences……

IDENTITY –> VIBRATION –> GRATITUDE AND FAITH –> FREQUENCY –> ACTION

Your identity is your consciousness (actually your subconscious!) – what you believe to be true about yourself and your circumstances. This is the basis of your creation, because you get what you believe. The tricky part about your consciousness is that you often don’t even know what you believe about yourself. I’ve found the best way to discover this is to honor the reflections of what you are experiencing. If everything you experience in your universe is a mirror reflection of something you believe to be true about yourself, ask yourself what must you believe when you consider the mirror reflection. For example, if you want a relationship and are not in one or keep meeting potential partners that you would never consider, your inner child may believe it’s not safe to be seen/known in an intimate way. Or perhaps that you don’t deserve love, or aren’t loveable. Whatever the circumstance is, it is a direct reflection of your inner child doing everything in its power to stay safe. Life isn’t just throwing you a bad hand. You are a powerful creator that is doing what “needs to be done” to stay safe. But what if there is no threat to you or your inner child? What if you simply see what the mirror is reflecting to you, and then call your inner children forward who don’t feel safe to be loved, for example? Allow them to be heard and loved by you, then invite them into your heart once they feel better, and use deep breathing to move the energy to and through you. You will begin to change your identity from being afraid to be loved, to one that is free to be loved. And once your identity changes, your circumstance will also change. The trick here is once you’ve made the discovery, and done this healing, then each day, ask yourself, how can I BE this now – be and feel love/loveable (in this example). And begin to show up in this new way of BEING. In a way, you practice BEING your new identity.

Your identity is what sets up your vibration. Your vibration isn’t necessarily about feeling good or happy all the time. It’s about how you are vibrating energetically in your identity. So as you do the work mentioned above, you’ll set yourself up for success in your vibration. Your identity and vibration go hand in hand.

Next on the roadmap to experiencing and seeing your blessings is gratitude and faith. If we don’t yet see something in our universe that we have been wanting to experience, it doesn’t mean it’s not already there energetically. Our job is to have faith and gratitude for what is right now, even if it seems like a difficult circumstance. Our faith is what gives us power to keep going, knowing the Truth of the Laws of the Universe. If you’re not sure what I mean by this, there are a number of books that I can recommend you read. Simply send me an email.

The final piece to the roadmap, is the Frequency of your goal achieved. You want to imagine that your frequency of your goal achieved is similar to the frequency of your Higher Self. This frequency is one of love, joy and peace. How can you bring your awareness to be in this type of frequency more often? All you have to do is imagine yourself with your desired goal achieved and feel it. So you see, your blessings are WITHIN YOU first! Then you’ll notice your outer circumstances match your inner being. Last but not least, take inspired action towards your goals in this new identity and way of being, with faith! When you do what you know to do in this energy, it works wonders!